It’s funny how we call our babies little bundles of joy. Cos they aren’t as little as you naive souls might think. By naïve souls I mean that part of human race, which is miles away from motherhood, or even the preggy ladies for that matter.
Let
me explain. My little bundle of joy made an arrival on the life scene two years
ago. Boundless Joy - check. Over Excitement – check. Infinite Love – check. Overly
Protective Attitude – check. Underlying Fear
– check. Surprised with the last one? Until the D-day my friends, it’s all
hunky dory. Getting indulged from all directions. Apart from the special care
at home, strangers do their bit too. Seats being given up, ways being cleared,
a helping hand being offered. We get spoilt and misled. And then, the moment of
truth. Its nature’s way of telling you, sarcastically, ‘Abhi toh party shuru hui hai!’
Moms
can be divided in two categories.
Well as such there are hell lots of distinguishing features, but when it comes
to baby parenting, there are two distinct types, the new age mom and the old
school mom.
A
look at me, and you’d fit me in the previous group but looks can be deceptive. I’m
as old school as can be. Having been
brought up in a joint family, having being raised by a super-traditional and
dominating grandma has deep-down effects on the personality. (We can discuss my
rookie errors and slip-ups some other day, lets focus!) And so I stayed away
from books and mostly followed the tried and tested old-age advice.
At
the same time, having access to some good pediatricians, and having doctors on
both sides of the family, means one cannot remain untouched by the new age fundae.
The decisions are tough, but its all about what you feel is best for your baby.
So say, my doc would strictly say no to sugar and honey until age 1. Had my
grandma been around, she would’ve frowned, “Oh, what does he know!”
A
cloth nappy would’ve been her advice. Cos of the firm belief that diapers
aren’t good for the delicate skin of the baby. I would’ve probably followed her
instructions in this regard too had I not experienced the world of Pampers. My
child is a Pampers child. So much so, that he doesn’t say ‘diaper’, he says
‘Pampers’.
Babies
are blessed with an amazing skin texture. Maintaining it is a big challenge. 5
things that I feel can help:
- Massaging with a good oil – The Indian practice of massaging a baby before a bath is not only good for their muscles but also does wonders on the skin.
- Moisturizing the skin after a bath – Again, you may use old age home remedies or the good branded moisturizers. What is important is the nourishing.
- Using soft clothes – The delicate skin needs to be protected with good fabrics.
- Using the right diaper – There are quite a few options available in the market. But if you want a relatively inexpensive one, the baby is better off without it.
- Changing the diaper at the right intervals – This is baby specific and you would figure it out along the way.
Something
that a guy can never relate to, and the woman can never forget, the delivery,
is just the beginning. The first few months are filled with sleepless nights
and tiring days. The pre-baby era’s anthem ‘Tere
mere milan ki yeh raina’ gets converted into ‘Poocho na kaise maine rain bitai’ in the post-baby era. Life changes
in more ways than one, but it’s all worth it. For the center of the parents’
universe, the ‘little’ angel. And don’t we just wanna give them the best?
PS. Pampers brings you the softest ever Pampers Premium Care Pants. Its cotton-like softness is #SoftestForBabySkin and allows it to breathe, thus keeping baby’s skin soft and healthy, and your baby happy.
20 comments:
Wow very nice article here. Pampers is the best for babies.
Yep I truly believe so! Thanks for your compliment Jamshed :)
Ha ha! I loved how you related the movie songs for the before-after situation. Good one Leena!
This truly made me laugh Leena....being mom of two, I have been there, done that....And poocho na kaise maine rain bitai....:)
Thanks Parul dear! Really glad you liked it :)
Hehe Sunaina, we all for sure sail in the same boat :)
A warm welcome to my blog.
I am so glad those days are done for me ;)
hilarious post!
I love how you added humour in a situation like this; Makes a serious moment lighter and fun filled isn't it. I do the same but inside my head really. As it is.. people think I'm delirious. Do not want to fodder their thoughts anymore. :) I love how you connected songs for the before and after situations too.
xoxo - Style.. A Pastiche
Thanks so much Sujata. Very glad you liked it :)
Thanks Chaicy. Words like these are always encouraging. Welcome to my blog :)
xoxo
Hilarious post . I really really love the ad of pampers which you posted here. I really get tempted to buy a pack when i see ad but problem is I don't have kids.
Love your humor quotient. :) Very nicely penned.
Hehe...loved your style of writing, Leena... wonderfully written, amusing yet informative... :-)
Hahaha.Loved your humor sense in this post. Nice post Leena.
Cheers,
Sriram & Krithiga
Very Funny Leena! My elder son was also comfortable with pampers only.
Haha Sadhvi, your comment is apt for the humour quotient on my post.
Thanks for the compliment Maitreni! Glad u liked it :)
Thanks Mani dear, for your lovely words as always :)
Thanks SriKri! Glad you liked :)
Is it! Its got to be comfortable isn't it Sapana, if thats what our babies prefer?
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